Thursday, December 18, 2025

How Patience Helps You Stay Present; ’Tis the Season to Open Yourself to New Ways of Seeing; 10-Minute Loving-Kindness Meditation

 

12.16.2025


Live Talk + Meditation

Join our December resident teacher, Pamela Ayo Yetunde, on Thursday, December 18, at 5:00pm PST / 8:00pm EST to explore the potential vitality that comes from the work of befriending ourselves and others through Buddhist practices.

Sunday, December 14, 2025

3 Breath Practices for a Calm and Open Heart

 

12.12.2025

3 Breath Practices for a Calm and Open Heart

 

The instruction to “take a breath” is common, practical, and often reassuring advice. We can all appreciate the power of a deep inhale–exhale. Many years ago, at an introduction to meditation for beginners, I heard this same instruction and learned of the connection between the breath and our ability to return to balance and ease. “We can always return to the breath,” the teacher assured us.

My reaction landed somewhere between irritation and relief. I was irritated that the key to undoing my tendency toward anxiousness and distraction was something I’d had access to all along. And I was relieved that an essential foundation of practice — at a time when so much about meditation felt odd and otherworldly to me — was so readily available, even mundane.

As the Theravada Buddhist teacher Shaila Catherine explains in “The Buddha’s Breath Practice,” the Buddha recommended going into the forest, sitting under a tree, and “being with” the breath. He was the first person to teach this practice of anapanasati, “mindfulness of breathing,” and it is a core practice across most Buddhist traditions.

In today’s world, science has demonstrated what meditators have known for thousands of years — that deep, abdominal breath encourages full oxygen exchange and is beneficial, even transformative, for body and mind. By shifting our breathing deep into our belly, we can return to a parasympathetic state — a place of calm and balance.

A powerful example of this appears in the January 2026 issue of Lion’s Roar, where Sharon Suh shares four trauma-informed mindfulness practices for healing and wholeness, including a personal favourite of mine, the 5-7-8 breath. In this practice, you breathe in for a count of five, hold that breath for a count of seven, and finish with a slow exhale for a count of eight. Even just a few rounds of this breath can be hugely beneficial.

Below, you’ll find that and two more breath practices to help you put the Buddha’s wisdom into action. May they allow you find an opportunity to return to the breath — again, and again, and again…

—Beth Wallace, Associate Publisher, Finance & Operations, Lion’s Roar

4 Trauma-Informed Mindfulness Practices for Healing


In this gentle guide, Sharon Suh shares four simple and safe practices for healing and wholeness.


Sitting in meditation without attuning to the lingering effects of trauma can lead to dysregulation. Many people worry that they shouldn’t move or open their eyes while meditating, even when discomfort arises. They may feel compelled to push through anxiety, believing that being still is essential. But from a trauma-informed perspective, this approach can be counterproductive. We often think of trauma as an experience that happened in the past, but it’s something that may also overwhelm our ability to cope in the present moment.

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Let the “Nine Breaths of Purification” Clear Your Mind and Open Your Heart


Daniel Ahearn, LMFT, shares an article and accompanying video on the how and why of a practice he says offers “a gentle revolution, a way to clear what weighs us down, to reconnect with the body, and to remember that every breath offers a chance to begin again.”


The practice balances three subtle inner channels associated with anger, attachment, and ignorance. In modern language, it resets emotional clarity and recalibrates the nervous system: an antidote to the poisons of the mind, delivered in its most efficient form.

Bön teachings view the breath as a bridge between body and mind, awareness and release. This lineage is deeply somatic and reverent toward nature. Many of its practices anticipate what we now recognize as advanced ecopsychology and somatic work. As a clinician, I find Bön to be sophisticated and vibrant technology for Westerners seeking holistic well-being.

Trudy Goodman’s “Teddy Bear” Breath Practice


Join Trudy Goodman in this calming 10-minute guided meditation, where she introduces a simple yet profound technique to ease a busy mind by using the breath as your “teddy bear.”


Just like a child finds comfort in their favorite toy, you can return to your breath to find relaxation and steady your focus. In this session, you’ll learn how to anchor your mind, soothe jagged energies, and gently bring yourself back to the present moment whenever distractions arise. This practice is perfect for calming stress, preparing for sleep, or finding peace throughout the day.

Wednesday, December 10, 2025

Befriending Your Beautiful Monsters: A Guide to Emotional Well-Being with Tsoknyi Rinpoche

 


Befriending Your Beautiful Monsters: A Guide to Emotional Well-Being

with Tsoknyi Rinpoche


We are delighted that you are joining us for Befriending Your Beautiful Monsters: A Guide to Emotional Well-Being with Tsoknyi Rinpoche!

February 7, 2026
10-11:30 a.m. EST (New York), 4-5:30 p.m. CET (Europe), 11-00:30 a.m. HKT (Hong Kong) 

The YouTube stream will be in English only. If you require translation from English, please register again to attend this event via Zoom.

Questions: Contact EventSupport@tergar.org

Go to Event

Jack Kornfield on Moving from Trauma to Freedom; How to See Yourself with Compassion; The Future of the Dalai Lama Lineage

 


12.09.2025


Live Talk + Meditation

Join our December resident teacher, Pamela Ayo Yetunde, on Thursday, December 18, at 5:00pm PST / 8:00pm EST to explore the potential vitality that comes from the work of befriending ourselves and others through Buddhist practices.