May You Be Safe
This past month, our March resident teacher Susan Kaiser Greenland guided us through four weeks of
metta, or loving-kindness, practice at our
weekly live meditation. In her closing talk for Lion’s Roar members on Thursday on the protection that loving-kindness offers, she shared the classic Buddhist story where the Buddha sent a group of 500 monks to practice in a forest grove. Frightened by the tree spirits in the grove, they returned to the Buddha and told him they couldn’t practice in the haunted forest. He sent them back with an unusual kind of armor: loving-kindness.
“The first time I heard this story,” Susan said, “I thought, ‘Wow, that doesn’t make sense to me. Loving-kindness is this warm wish for wellbeing for ourselves and all beings. How is that an armor or a protection?’”
“But sure enough,” she continued, “the monks went back to the tree forest, and they were silently and out loud chanting the classical loving-kindness phrases:
May you be happy. May you be well. May you be safe. May you live with ease. Sure enough, the warmth and the friendliness of their goodwill radiated outward, and the tree spirits felt it. They could feel this warmth, and all of a sudden the tree spirits came down from the trees and they decided that they would help the monks.”
In metta practice, we’re not trying to falsely manufacture a feeling or force ourselves into compassion. Instead, we practice offering simple phrases of goodwill, and gradually open our hearts toward love and friendliness. The intention to do this itself is important, as Susan reminded us: “Intention drives the practice.”
She also offered a helpful reminder: this love isn’t something we have to create, it’s already present within us. What this practice asks is that we gently notice “what gets in the way of our connection with the love that’s always here.” In uncertain times, when the world around us can feel a little like its own haunted forest, this simple practice can offer just the protection we need to steady the mind and open the heart.
Below, you’ll find three teachings that offer different ways to practice metta. However you choose to practice this weekend, I offer you this wish:
May you be happy.
May you be well.
May you be safe.
May you live with ease.
—Lilly Greenblatt, digital editor, Lion’s Roar