Almost all people interpret soulmate as a perfect partner of love, which will satisfy all aspects of our human desire. Soulmate is someone who suits us. They are supportive, sexy, intelligent, funny, and will be part of our love story that is 'happily ever after'.
Unfortunately, life is not that simple.
WHAT IS SOULMATE ACTUALLY?
A Soul Mate is part of our soul family. Our 'soul family' are souls who come to our lives for one reason and another, and they can be our family, friends, co-workers, neighbors, love, and enemies.
We all have souls and when we meet the family of our souls in this life, the effects of this encounter will produce different sensations, confusing, and also challenging. Some souls will feel that they already know each other from different lives, some will conflict with each other, and others will feel comfortable around a certain person / soul.
Some souls who come into our lives will help us to grow up in understanding love and wisdom, where some of the other souls will help us experience a difficult and precious life lesson, or the truth of the universe.
No matter how fleeting the soulmate encounters, every soulmate has the potential to change our lives significantly, even when that person is just an unknown girl who smiles at us on the street.
Soulmate is a mirror of ourselves. What we see in that person, reflects what is in our soul.
When we have managed to observe other souls and recognize them as our soulmate (including our enemy), we will realize that they are in our lives as teachers to teach us life lessons. At that moment, perhaps our perceptions as well as our view of the person change completely.
SOULMATE TYPES
The word 'friend' is interpreted differently from the word 'soulmate' because usually the soulmate is identified with our spouse / partner. But how do you describe someone who is 'more than a friend or a friend', but not our soulmate because there is no feeling sexually attracted?
Below are some pronouns to describe the different kinds of soulmate that we will meet in our lives.
SOUL FRIEND / SOULMATE THAT IS A FRIEND
This is the most common type of soulmate connection. These people exist in your life because your ego, intelligence, and emotions are connected to these people. You share the same tastes, the same beliefs, the same sense of humor, the same views, and the same values.
This connection is not as deep as the soul companion and the soulmate of this type usually has some disputes in it. Sometimes, soul friends can also be your soul teacher, but generally you see soul friend as someone who sees the world with glasses and the same view as yourself.
SOUL TEACHER / SOULMATE THAT IS TEACHER
Soul teacher sent to your life to teach you a life lesson. They do not directly 'teach' you, but usually give you a 'challenging' situation and you should grow to overcome the problem, and take lessons from it.
Soul Teacher is usually a member of your family, friends, co-workers, old lover, maybe even your enemy. You draw them into your life because you need them to teach you the meaning of life.
For example, there is a soul teacher who comes and teaches you to be patient (strangers who suddenly grab a queue), some teach you to stop chasing the wrong person (eg your best friend), others teach you to build affection against others and understanding of the way of life and also the beliefs held by others.
Usually, the relationship with the soul teacher can end and fail if we fail to also interpret what lessons they bring to our lives. We must be aware that we can not change a person unless they are willing to change themselves. However, we can always change ourselves to a better direction.
SOUL COMPANION / SOULMATE
This soulmate relationship is a common relationship and a public perception of soulmate. Soul Companion can be a male or female, friend or family member. Soul friend are the people who have a good harmonization with us through the ego they emit, while the soul companion has a good harmonization with us in the psychiatric relationship.
Soul companion has a much longer and stable relationship with ourselves than soul friend for this reason, our soul is directly connected.
Usually, you'll feel like you've known this person for several centuries, even from a past life. With soul companion, there is a deep understanding of the person and the feeling that you both have thoughts and emotions that are 'on the same frequency'. These connections usually last a lifetime.
Soul companions usually have the same age of soul as ourselves, and this causes us to share relationships and teach each other and grow without having to experience disputes like soul friend or soul teacher. We will have deep feelings and empathy for the soul companion in our lives.
SOUL TWIN / (TWIN FLAME)
Ancient Greek beliefs say that our soul was once a whole soul before God divides it in two, and when we have found half our souls, our souls will become whole again. This is the essence of soul twin.
Finding our soul twin makes us feel that we have found a part of our lost lives. Many people describe this encounter as 'coming home'. They feel like 'whole again' when they are near their soul twin pairs. They also experience a sense of comfort that will not be felt in other relationships in life. They complement each other through their advantages and disadvantages.
Interestingly, the age of a person's soul often determines the harmony of soul twin pairs. For example, an elderly person and an adult person will be more aware and seek their partner, then experience a love story that is peaceful, happy and no longer tainted with possessiveness and fear of loss.
Basically, it's important to remember that there is nothing better or worse than these relationships - all your relationships bring good goals for growth and treatment of your wounds.
WHY SOUL MATES COME IN OUR LIFE
There are three ways a Soul Mate comes to our lives: For one reason, For a while, and Forever.
This identification is important because it will make you understand what you should expect from a relationship when a soulmate comes to your life.
Sometimes we hold on to a dead relationship just because the relationship has sprung before, without knowing that the purpose of the relationship is over and it's time we let it go.
FOR ONE REASON.
When you meet a Soul Mate for ONE REASON, this is usually to fulfill a goal that should appear in your life. This can be guidance, friends when you are in a difficult condition, support, deep conversation, or 'light' when you need an enlightenment.
FOR A WHILE.
There is also a Soul Mate that comes TEMPORARY. This person is usually the catalyst assigned to share, grow, learn with us. They can also appear in our lives when we are frightened or feeling weak, or when we need someone to doubt our old beliefs. Perhaps, too, he is someone who is sent to help us find a passion that we did not realize before. Whatever the reason, this type of Soulmate comes only temporarily and will leave when the 'gift' and the lessons they have given are delivered to us.
FOREVER.
The soumate relationship that lasts forever is usually twin soul. They teach us very deep lessons, which are very difficult and take a lifetime to learn and love each other.
In this connection, the strength of one parner can usually be used to strengthen the partner, and harmony from both sides will be very peaceful and flowing so beautifully that they can usually last a lifetime. This relationship is so rare and so valuable, like a diamond.
If we manage to find our Soul Twin, we should be grateful nonstop for a relationship that not everyone can live with.
There are all sorts of soulmates out there that we will meet in our lives. Some of them will teach us something new, while others will teach us the meaning of happiness.
Some of them will last a few months or years, some will last a lifetime.
With lessons and times
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