by: BESTRELOAD
For those of you who feel chased time because soon Valentine's day and feel really ngenes if no boyfriend, you who are mossy waiting for the person who said it is your soul mate, especially for the new watch Dilan 1990 that he said romantic, also for you instead of hepi-hepi on the night of the week, but even keinget ex, alone, cold ...
Longing is heavy, but it's harder to be single. The proof Dilan wrote do not want to be single.
Well that means you are exposed to single syndrome. Different between singles and singles. If single, you will feel fine no spouse, no feelings like above. The saying that, "Single is the choice, the singles are fate" is actually true also if viewed from a Buddhist point of view. How come? Because karma bears fruit in feelings, and that you feel because it is one of the karmic fruits that you may have done in the past which you should now receive.
There are various actions that result from his karma make us become singles, one of which is an inappropriate sexual act. This act is a violation of the third principle of the Buddhist pancasila is essentially a black karmic path, which means that the result will lead you to unhappiness.
The act can be various, the most common is having an affair or having sex with a wife / husband person. Certainly, inappropriate sex acts may vary according to tradition and culture in the places upon which the Buddhist tradition develops.
Obviously things like breaking up, and the status of the singles did not come from the sky. If you feel you have never committed inappropriate sex during your life, it is very likely you have done it in your past life. If you do not believe it, try checking in yourself, whether you have a tendency like:
easily bored or distracted to others during courtship or
like someone who has a partner.
If there are signs like that, then it is very likely you have traces of sexual acts that are inappropriate in previous lives. If you let that tendency, then this is a result that you can accept later:
born as an animal, a ghost of hunger, or a creature of hell: a fully ripe consequence (or determining the nature of the next birth),
it's easy to part with friends and family, to have an unfaithful partner, to live in solitude: this is a result of a similarity to the cause, because when you commit an inappropriate sexual act, there are others who are disappointed that consequently make you feel the same disappointment,
have a tendency to re-engage in inappropriate sexual conduct: this is also a similar cause. People who have deviant sexual preferences or behaviors (eg pedophiles) are real examples of this consequence,
living in a dirty, foul-smelling environment: this is the decisive consequence of the environment
So the singles are just one of the many things you can experience as a result of inappropriate sexual acts. Maybe after reading this article we can think, "Lucky just singles, do not get karma others, hehehe ...", but if we do not keep our body, speech, and actions in this life in accordance with Buddhadharma, experience it in the next life!
Anyway, how you deal with your condition is now completely your choice. Are you going to continue to lament your jomb status, or do you change yourself so that this bad karma does not happen again? The solution is in your hands because of the answer to the question "Buddha, why am I single?" Yes, because of you. Yes, you.
Source: Liberation in Our Hands by Phabongkha Rinpoche
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